This blog post is being written on Sunday, May 31, 2020. My husband, Randy, has twin sons who are in the Texas Army National Guard and both have been deployed to Dallas for protection and patrol! The orders came through last night for one and this afternoon for the other who has already been on COVID-19 federal orders for the last couple of months working food banks.
As parents, we must believe that all is well or we would be out of our minds with worry! We sent them away with love and surround them with Divine protection. Any thoughts of love and protection and wisdom you offer would be greatly appreciated!
Randy and I have talked about the boys going into war, but we never thought they would be called to serve and protect people from each other here at home. We get waves of fear and feel uncertain about the outcome, but we must trust the Divine will guide them. I still have a lump in my throat as a write this. The only way to cope with such distress is to choose to think the way our Inner Beings think–which are of soothing thoughts, thoughts that bring relief and calm and peace. Thoughts of love for ALL humanity!
Even through all this, I still believe it’s a great time to be alive! There is a tremendous amount of asking for improvement and Source is answering. But, where are we? Are we in the receiving mode of our desired improvements? Or, are we still back in the asking stage, over and over–feeling bad as we continue to observe unwanted situations?
Today, let’s talk about what it’s going to take to make real change in this world, our nation, our people, in humanity itself.
We’ve all been living enough contrast these days to have asked for many improvements! We see and hear what’s going on–the pandemic, the unstable economy, the deaths, the traumas, the protesting, the riots, the activated military. And, every time we notice the contrast–which is anything that we don’t like, even hate–we immediately vibrate with our desired improvement. Now, we may not have developed our preference for improvement, verbally yet, but we feel the desire for improvement.
It can feel horrible in the asking stage.
During the asking stage, we are fully and many times, painfully aware of the problems. We feel fear, concern, worry, disgust. We feel outraged, depressed, angry, vulnerable, insecure, and a host of other really negative emotions. Why is that? And, what do we do about it?
The asking stage is all about showing us contrast. This is our golden opportunity to make our preferences known to the Universe. This is where we get to choose what improvement we’d love to experience instead. This asking happens automatically. Do you know why?
Because the desire for feeling good, feeling safe, feeling happy, feeling compassion, feeling oneness with all humanity is WHO WE REALLY ARE! These feelings are at the core of our BEING–our Inner Being. So, our Inner Beings are always calling us to more life, more love, more joy, more harmony, more peace, more abundance, more feeling good!
Why do we still feel so awful if we’ve already asked for improvements?
Where’s the answer?
Once we’ve asked for improvement, that vibration has been received by Source Energy. Our Inner Source has taken hold of our new requests and BECOMES that newest version of who we really are. Source holds our desires, focuses on them, becomes them, and then calls us toward them. Waiting for us to align with those desires so we can receive them into our own reality. Hint: Alignment ONLY feels really good. Feeling good is our indication we’re in the receiving mode of our desires. So, if you’re still feeling bad, you’re not yet in that good-feeling alignment for receiving your requested improvement for change! But, you can get there.
The answers, the improved desires are already given by Source–immediately! We never have to do anything for this stage–Source handles it all.
The ONLY reason we ever feel negative emotion is because we are still pinching ourselves off from our new desires. We are not yet heading in the direction of our desires. We are still thinking and feeling like we did in the asking stage. We may have unpacked and moved in. We keep hashing over the problems. We join groups to discuss the problems. We push against the problems. All of which, feels awful.
Once we’ve asked, we don’t have to ask over and over and keep feeling bad! ONCE WE ASK, IT IS GIVEN!!
So, it’s time to stop focusing on the problem which traps us into feeling horrid, and focus on the solution which frees us to feel awesome!
The answer, the desire, the improvement is waiting in our vibrational escrow account for us to start feeling better first. The better feelings must come first before we can receive our desired improvements.
We have to become the change BEFORE we receive the change and experience the improvement! It has very little to do with what we are DOING–especially when we are acting out of fear, hatred, worry, outrage, and anger. It is all about the vibration of who we are BEING in love and peace!
Our sole job is to align with our desires for change! This is the receiving stage.
How do you feel about those things that you are giving most of your attention to? If there is something in your life that gives you negative emotion almost every time you think about it, we would do anything that we could do to get that negative thing out of our awareness. ~Abraham-Hicks
When we keep focusing our attention on the problems, we will never find the solution! Einstein told us that–”We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.” And, yes, we created this mess. Now we must use different thinking to create the solution.
Every single time we think about what’s going wrong in the world, we are focusing our powerful energy on it and the Universe is matching the essence of our vibrational output, by obedience to its own law.
Until you understand that the Universe ONLY understands vibration–which is created by your dominant thoughts and emotional feelings–you will continue to experience more that’s going wrong in the world by default! You must feel better and focus on solutions before you’ll receive better-feeling experiences. It’s law. You attract experiences that match your vibrational output!
Because the Universal language is vibration and the mantra of the Universe is MORE, the Universe, by law, must match our emotional vibrations over anything else–over our words, deeds, actions, desires, laws, regulations.
If we are DOING things, taking ACTION, while consumed with the strong feelings of anger, fear, vulnerability, outrage, injustice, worry–we will be attracting more of the same! We will be attracting MORE experiences that make us feel angry, fearful, vulnerable, outraged, injustice, and worried! Because the Universe is understanding and matching how we feel not what we’re doing.
This is why I believe it is imperative that we reawaken to who we really are. Every single person, all of humanity, needs to be reminded of who they really are–as beautiful eternal beings of Light and Love. That we are ONE humanity, which means we are ONE eternally!
It’s far more powerful to be BE happy, joyful, peaceful, loving, compassionate, kind, and secure BEFORE we take any ACTION. In that way, we will BE the change we long for.
Please understand that this Universe is governed by the Law of Attraction. It’s only attraction. There is no exclusion. There is no assertion. You can’t shout NO at something you don’t like and expect it to go away. Your strong emotional vibration of dislike is attracting it right back to you–expanding it into MORE!
“Every time you praise something, every time you appreciate something, every time you feel good about something, you are telling the Universe, ‘more of this please.’” ~Abraham-Hicks
The opposite is also true. Every time you complain about something, every time you hate something, every time you feel bad about something, you are telling the Universe, “More of this, please!” It’s always about the attractive power of your vibrations.
So, you can never shout NO and make anything go away. Also, no one can assert anything into your life that isn’t already vibrating from within you. You may not experience the exact essence of your fears, but you will attract more things that make you fearful if you keep feeling vulnerable and fearful. The experience is matched by the Universe to the equivalent emotional vibration.
You can check this for your own life. Look around and notice what experiences are showing up in your life. If they are mostly wonderful, happy-feeling experiences, you are vibrating at a high frequency most of the time by choosing good-feeling thoughts, dominantly. But, if they are experiences that you hate, or cause you pain, you are vibrating on a lower frequency by your free-will choice of your dominant thoughts. You are attracting experiences and people based upon how you feel most of the time!
Until we begin remembering who we really are as extensions of Source Energy and feel our worthiness, value, security, joy, unconditional love, hope, optimism, abundance, prosperity, well-being, and freedom–we will never be able to DO enough to make any real changes! The Universe understands and matches the dominant emotional vibration of the masses. We, as the masses, must realize who we really are for there to be lasting change.
The change will only come when we BECOME who we really are!
When we reawaken to our joy, when we RE-member our Spirit-Mind-Body into our Oneness, we will witness the most powerful changes the world has ever experienced!!!
When we begin to KNOW our worthiness, our love, our freedom, our clarity, our passion, our wisdom, our peace, our well-being, our God-like-ness, we will see the blessed improvements we desire for ourselves and our world!
Remember, Source loves everyone unconditionally! That means Source loves those “bad guys” just as much as they love YOU in all your goodness. Unconditional love means that no condition has to change for love to be expressed freely!! We have to know it before we can receive it, though. Source is always flowing unconditional love to us, but it’s up to us to allow it to flow through us!
So, that means NO-one has to change to be loved unconditionally by Source. Well, that’s doesn’t fit my beliefs around punishment that I was taught to believe! Bad guys are always punished and shunned. Bad guys are supposed to get what they deserve. Bad guys have to pay for what they did! With this of vibration of hatred, punishment, guilt, and shame active in you–YOU will be attracting the very things you are focusing on by the hatred you feel toward another! You cannot love and hate at the same time. They are diametrically opposing frequencies.
We must see people through the eyes of Source–with unconditional love. What has caused them to act in such horrendous ways? What trauma have they suffered that causes them to think and believe they need to take out their revenge in such ways?
They are crying out for the love they don’t feel. They are crying out for understanding. They want to feel better and don’t know how. It reminds me of the Bible verse that states, “There, but for the grace of God, go I.” If we had lived their experience, would we be acting out in the same way? If we were taught to believe that you have to control by violence to get what you want–would we be in the same boat? If we were taught the only way to feel worthy or valuable was to act superior by creating violence, would we be doing the same?
I am not at all condoning any violence, disrespect of anyone, causing anyone pain or suffering. All I’m saying is that we must not be so quick to hate when our example from Source is to love unconditionally. There, but for the grace of God, go I. Something to ponder.
What can we do to elicit change? Who do we need to be?
I understand when we see someone hurting, we want to help. We want to DO something. We are uplifters, teachers, and healers at the core of our being. So, we want to help. We want to do the right thing.
Here are a few things we can do as we’re becoming:
- I am passionate about journaling because I’ve seen the profound improvement it’s made in my life and others. Journal about what’s going right in your life and the world. Search out stories of love and compassion toward one another. This will raise your vibration, naturally, by focusing on things that feel good. Write about anything and everything that you can praise, appreciate, love, and take joy in! You may get inspired to do your own acts of kindness and compassion!
- Meditate every day. It only takes 15-20 minutes to quiet your mind. (If you need help, ask me how to meditate.)
- After meditation, ask your Inner Being what they know, think, and feel about you and any situation you are facing, then listen and write about any inspired ideas or impulses to take action. Your Inner Being is always offering you ways to be of service from joy. Listen for the inspiration and new ideas!
- Start a mentorship program or volunteer to encourage children and parents or other adult groups to remember who they really are. Tell them of their goodness. Let them know they truly are love, joy, peace, knowledge, wisdom, freedom, clarity, abundance, well-being, confidence, safety, security, happiness, unlimited possibilities–at the core of their Being. People need to be built up by others until they are stable in their own personal knowing of who they really are. Sometimes, we need to trust in someone’s belief in us before we take it on as our own.
- Post uplifting quotes that remind us of our worthiness and how unconditionally loved we really are and BELIEVE and FEEL the truth of each message. We are forgetful people and need to be reminded often. Your intention to uplift, teach, and heal will be powerful for eliciting change! You never know when one post will plant the seed that sparks change in someone!
- Spend some time daydreaming about what the world could look like if everyone understood the value and worthiness of each other. This doesn’t sound like doing much, but let me tell you, it is one of the most energetically powerful DOING projects you can tackle! Practice seeing each person through the eyes of Source. See their value and worth. See them with unconditional love. They don’t have to change to make you feel good–you feel good first and things will change!
- Get happy, BE happy, and stay happy! Your happiness is contagious. It’s truly your greatest gift to yourself, others, and the world at large. That high vibration is so powerful! The more people get happy and share their happiness, the energy of mass consciousness will shift into high gear and change is inevitable!
“Fill yourself with love for everyone. See the unfolding of God in everyone you meet, including those who you have been taught to reject.” ~Dr. Wayne Dyer
It’s time for us, as mass consciousness, to vibrate at higher frequencies by remembering who we really are and each living in their personal peace and love! Then, and only then, will we BE the change. Whatever we feel inspired to DO in that state of BEING will be so beneficial for all of humanity!!
You may be inspired to lead a grassroots movement reconnecting people with their Inner Beings of Love and Joy! You may feed the hungry. Comfort the weary. You may be inspired to run for office! And, I’m not at all joking!! We need leadership who serve only from a heart of love and compassion!
Learn to expect the improvements you’re asking for. Be happy that change is on the way. Be satisfied here and now, yet eager for more.
“Expectation is the strongest word in attraction.” ~Abraham-Hicks
Expectation is powerful! That’s what faith is. You come to expect, or have faith, that what you currently don’t see is on it’s way to becoming a reality! The energetic shift is coming. Can you feel it?
If you can’t feel it, that simply means you’re not tuning into your Inner Being often enough. Your Inner Being knows, thinks, and feels really good about you and what is coming!
My intention for writing this blog is to share my love and a new perspective of what’s happening in our world. I know the only path to real change is through alignment with our Inner Beings–knowing, thinking, and feeling like our Inner Beings–who feel awesome all the time. Until we start feeling better about who we are and loving one another, we will never attract the change we desperately desire.
My intention is to present you with a different perspective on your approach to creating change. Instead of fighting against, pushing against, protesting against things you hate, promote what you love. Promote well-being of all, peace for all, love for all, health for all, compassion towards all. Instead of anti-anything–be pro-love, pro-peace, pro-humanity! It’s simply a tweaking in your approach where the resistance is negligible and appreciation and love reign in your hearts.
Life is supposed to be fun! The feelings of fear, anxiety, worry, vulnerability, insecurity, injustice, hatred, anger, outrage, and pushing against has to be replaced with the feelings of love, peace, calm, certainty, security, freedom, well-being, abundance, prosperity, wisdom, and clarity to elicit real, lasting change!
A new favorite quote from Deepak Chopra, “If you knew the magnificence of your true self, it would be impossible for you to hurt another being.”
We must know who we really are and truly love ourselves so that it becomes impossible to ever hurt anyone!! This is my wish for all humanity!
I love y’all so much! I want y’all to know your magnificence!!! Do you want to hear what else I know about you?
“You are joy, looking for a way to express. It’s not just that your purpose is joy, it is that you are joy. You are love and joy and freedom and clarity expressing. Energy–frolicking and eager–that’s who you are. And so, if you’re always reaching for alignment with that, you’re always on your path, and your path will take you into all kinds of places. We can’t get away from the acknowledgment that you are Pure Positive Energy that translates into the human emotion of joy.” ~Abraham-Hicks
Wow! Who we are is Pure Positive Energy that translates into the emotion of JOY!! Now that you know this, go BE that joy. Be that love and joy and freedom and clarity of your BEing. Be that energy who is frolicking and eager for more–more life, more love, more joy, more peace. As we all start BEING who we intended when we came into this life, we will see the change, the improvement we long for. Our Inner Beings are calling us toward it.
Are you willing to move toward your desire for improvement?
Are you willing to replace hatred and outrage for love and peace?
Are you willing to focus on the good-feeling solutions?
Are you willing to BE the change–BE the magnificence of your birthright?
I’m heading there–so, let’s walk together! If you need help, please contact me. We’re not meant to travel alone. The quest-path can get bumpy and treacherous. That’s why I’m here–to be of service as I guide you into your own BECOMING!!
If this post has resonated with you, please like, comment, and share this post. This really helps my work to expand and touch more lives with joy!! Thanks in advance!
To your joyous becoming,
YOUR Spiritual Guide and fellow traveler
PS: If you are really struggling with this whole chaotic mess in the world, please contact me! Don’t sort this mess out by yourself. I’m an expert at soothing you and giving you a new perspective that is easily assimilated into your daily life. Schedule your Spiritual Life Coaching Session with me. It’s my special offer for June at $150 (regularly $247). Let’s spend an hour together and help you get clarity on what to do next. See you then!!