Wisdom Whispers

Your Relationship with YOU!

“You will be with you longer than anyone else on the planet. Why not make it a great relationship. ~Louise Hay
The kind of relationship you have with YOU is the most important relationship you will ever have and will be reflected in all your other relationships. If you are critical, judgmental, disgusted, angry, fearful, frustrated at yourself, you will spread those attitudes to others–because that’s what you know and have experienced. You can only share what you’ve already experienced in yourself with Yourself.

If, on the other hand, you love you, you appreciate you, you care for, praise and enjoy YOU–these attitudes and beliefs are what you will share in your other relationships.

When I speak of relationships, I don’t just mean close friends or family. I’m also including folks we relate to in the news, in government, locally, and around the globe. If you focus hatred for someone doing something you’ve deemed as bad in the world, you can only notice it because a bit of that hatred is in your relationship with YOU!

If you notice you have bad feelings toward Yourself, you will spread it globally.

The only way to see a positive change in your world, is to repair your relationship with YOU. Looking for positive aspects of Yourself will also allow you to see positive aspects of those you don’t like. Look for the good in You, so you can see the good in others!

Every single person has some positive aspects that you can find, but you’ll never see it if all you’re looking for is bitter hatred and anger. Remember, we are all, either giving love or asking for love. Some folks are just really bad at asking for love–and may be looking for love in all the wrong places–outside themselves!

How are You giving love? How well do You ask for love? If you’re not even giving it to Yourself, how can you expect to give it to others? How is your relationship with YOU?

All we need it love–giving, receiving and asking for Love!

 

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