It’s New Year’s Eve!
Looking back over 2015, I can see some major improvements in my life. I believe I have grown and transformed into more of the person I know I am. Actually, I believe I’ve simply uncovered and remembered the who-I-really-am part of me—the eternal, pure, positive being. I’m learning to let go of stuff and just be.
I’m learning that I’m not here to control others and circumstances. That I attract everything I experience. If I run into grumpy people, it’s only because I have attracted them. If I run into delightful folks, it’s because I’ve attracted them. Every event and experience is from my point of attraction. No one is doing anything to me. Everything I experience I created. Knowing this takes the blame, guilt and victimization out of the equation. It places everything in my lap of responsibility.
This has actually been great news for me, because my life experience is up to me—and me alone! It doesn’t matter what’s going on around me, I can choose to still be happy. I can do this by utilizing my built-in Emotional Guidance System. This amazing system indicates exactly where my point of attraction is positioning my experiences. And, it’s easy to use. It’s all about my feelings. And, guess what? We all have this amazing guidance system!
If we can start paying attention to how we feel, we will be able to utilize the system with ease. Take an assessment of your feelings right now. Are you feeling good or bad? Are you full of tension and stress? Are you feeling really good and happy? These feelings are your indicators of what kind of attractions you will experience—unless you choose to change those feelings by changing your thoughts.
Of course, there is contrast in life—things we don’t want to see and things we do want to see. That contrast helps us decide what we want. When we see something we don’t want, it lets us know what we do want. When we decided to come into this time-space reality from the non-physical, we knew the contrast would help us decide what we want and how we want to expand.
The expanding part happens every moment of every day. The asking part of what we want is very easy. It happens naturally, even without focusing upon it. Every time we see something we want we shoot rockets of desire into our vibrational escrow account where Source immediately sets in motion the coordinating of cooperative components and prepares our path to receiving it.
Our only real work is to prepare an environment within our emotions to match what we want. This emotional vibrational match will indicate to the universe that we are ready to receive what we’ve put into our vibrational escrow account. We always want something because we believe we will feel better by having it. So, the better we feel, the more we match everything we want! How do we do this? We must learn to think like Source which creates a great feeling! Source knows us to be unlimited, eternal, creative, pure, positive energy. Abundance is universal. When we ask, it is given! Not sometimes—all the time. Don’t blame God/Source–as if it’s not his will–or fate because you didn’t get what you wanted. It’s up to us to match its vibration and allow it into our experience.
How do we know when we are thinking like Source so we can receive all the wonderful things we have put into our vibrational escrow account?
By our feelings!!! We have the Emotional Guidance System—remember?! Just by paying attention to how we feel will indicate our thoughts and whether they are a match to what Source is thinking on the same subject. Remember, each subject is really two subjects: the wanted and the lack of the wanted.
Source never, ever, thinks in terms of lack. We get to decide if our thoughts are that of Source—thoughts of abundance and appreciation—or thoughts of lack. Our feelings indicate what we are thinking. If we are feeling bad, we are not thinking from Source’s point of view—this feels bad because we are not in alignment with Source or what we want. If we are feeling good, we are thinking in alignment with Source and in harmony with all that we want.
See how easy it is to determine what we are thinking? We don’t have to monitor every thought. That would be impossible. We can, however, monitor the way we feel, right now, right now, right now!
Everything we are thinking about is happening right now. Whether we’re thinking about the past, present or future, we are thinking about it right now. It is active in our vibration right now. And, right now is our point of attraction!
Now, our job is to choose better-feeling thoughts if we are feeling bad. We are to reach for better-feeling thoughts that bring relief. Any ease in feelings will bring us closer to all that we want. No one is here to do this vibrational work for us. No one is here to bring us happiness or act the way we want them to. How people act is not our job to control. It’s really none of our business. And, we are not here to please other people, either! That is taking on the role of Source. We can never fully please anyone. There will always be something we’re not doing right—for them. So let that go. Let Source be their all-in-all.
Our job is to please ourselves—not in an egotistical way—but in an alignment with Source way. When we are in alignment with the thoughts of Source, we could never do anything that would hurt or harm another—unlike being selfishly egotistical. Let’s make our resolution this New Year of 2016 to learn to align our thoughts with Source. Let’s determine to feel better by reaching for better-feeling thoughts of relief. Let’s begin to learn the art of allowing and put ourselves in the mode of receiving all that we want.
We’ll never get it done and we can never get it wrong. We cannot reach a place of no return. Any situation or emotion can be turned around to align with our Inner Being of Source. We can never get so far off our path, that we cannot return to alignment by changing our perspective.
We need to look for positive aspects of each situation. Whatever is going on around us, let’s look for positive things we can appreciate. Sometimes it takes a while to start easily noticing things we appreciate, but they are there. (I’m preaching to the choir here!) It takes some work to change our perspective if we’ve practiced finding fault, placing blame or having a victim mentality. Let’s determine to see things we want. Let’s rewrite our sad stories into ones of delight and appreciation.
Let’s stop observing what is and look for what can be! If we focus only on what is, what is will keep repeating over and over in our lives. Different places, different faces. We will only keep what is activated in our emotional vibration and that is out of alignment with our Source within. Everything is happening now—remember? Let’s look for ways to appreciate aspects of what is and move on to appreciation instead of whining and complaining.
I am totally looking forward to 2016! With the determination of making how I feel the most important goal in my life, I know that I want to feel good. I can only accomplish feeling good by creating a vibrational environment of appreciation, love, happiness, fun, excitement, vibrancy, vitality, wellness, etc. I’m determined to look for things I want to see and make appreciation my priority. It is my job to choose good-feeling thoughts which produce a good-feeling life experience. That’s my resolution for 2016!
If you must have a New Year’s Resolution—make your happiness your resolution. Make feeling good your top priority. Change your perspectives enough to reach for better-feeling thoughts each and every time you start to notice your Emotional Guidance System indicating a misalignment with your Source Energy within. Decide to only think on good things that make you feel good. Find positive aspects of what’s going right in your life. Write that sh*t down! Every day! There is something profound in writing down things you appreciate, are grateful for or things you want—whether it’s resources, relationships, money, time or that perfect job. It literally changes our brain function.
I love to use the computer to type most of my writing, but I still use a pen and spiral-bound book to physically write in my journals. There’s something so special about looking back over the journals and reading what I’ve written to see where I’ve grown. If I’m feeling bad and can’t think of anything good to think about, I read my journals. It refreshes my memory of all the good and encourages my faith that all is really well!
Go purchase a journal and a special pen. I name my journals, My Journal of Positive Aspects and My Gratitude Journal. I have a special pen with purple ink—my favorite color—and named it My Magical Purple Pen of Increase. Make your writing special. Try it—you’ll like it!
Meditate and quiet your mind so you can be open to hearing the still small voice of inspiration from your Inner Source. When inspiration comes, take the action. No amount of action thrown at what you want will bring it to you—it will only push it further out of your reach. Action comes only after you have done the vibrational work to align with your Source within! Action without alignment is exhausting and futile.
Let’s make 2016 a year of happiness. If you’re into numerology, 2016 is the year of 9—all the digits add up to 9. It places energy on promoting completion. Suggesting it’s time to wrap things up and reach a conclusion. A time to consider what’s not been working for you and begin doing things differently with a new perspective on life. Enjoy the energy of 2016 with its focus on promoting a positive perspective on life that all is well. By reaching for better-feeling thoughts and recognizing what would work better for you, determine what you really want from the contrast life is showing you.
Have fun with this! It’s really exciting to realize empowerment of your life experience. It’s time to let go of blame, shame, guilt, playing the victim and take responsibility for your own feelings. It’s time to pull up our big-person panties and smile with their perfect fit!
Laugh, love unconditionally, have fun, explore new things, feel good! Well-Being is our natural state. Try it on this year—it feels really good!
All is well–living happily ever after!
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Mary Ann Pack, YOUR Life & Wellness Coach
PS: If you have determined to make feeling good your life’s goal and you’d like help, please email me and I’d be overjoyed to give you a complimentary consultation. I can help you with your life and wellness goals. My mission is to help you feel good for the rest of your life! Personal, one-on-one coaching is a great way to invest in your future HAPPY YOU!
PPS: If you like what you’re reading and it resonates with your soul, you can find more teachings from my mentor, Abraham-Hicks.